10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Vegetable Garden
I’ve had a vegetable garden for over 15 years — and I’ve learned a lot along the way.
When I first started, I knew absolutely nothing.
Since then, I’ve run a farm stand, grown food year-round (even under snow), and built a garden that feels both productive and calm to manage.
But it didn’t start that way.
In the beginning, I felt like I needed to know everything.
Every technique.
Every pest solution.
Every “right” way to garden.
I thought success meant doing more, growing more, and keeping up with everything I was reading.
But over time, I realized something much simpler:
I didn’t need more information.
I needed clarity.
In this video, I’m sharing 10 things I wish I had understood from the beginning — lessons that would have saved me time, stress, and a lot of second-guessing.
Whether you’re just starting out or a few seasons in, I hope this helps you find a calmer, more confident way to garden.
If you’d rather watch, you can see the full video below. If you prefer to read, the 10 lessons are right underneath.
Time Stamps:
- Lesson 1 0:11
- Lesson 2 1:51
- Lesson 3 3:09
- Lesson 4 4:49
- Lesson 5 6:52
- Lesson 6 9:29
- Lesson 7 11:24
- Lesson 8 12:24
- Lesson 9 14:33
- Lesson 10 18:02
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The 10 Things I Wish I Knew When I Started Gardening
1. Gardening does not have to be so complicated
You do not need to learn every technique before you begin. Companion planting, succession planting, permaculture, vertical growing — those can all come later if you want them. In the beginning, stick to the fundamentals: choose plants that work in your climate and learn how to keep them alive.
2. Gardening does not have to become a part-time job
A garden can take a lot of time, but it does not have to. You get to decide how much effort you want to put in, what kinds of plants you want to grow, and how much maintenance feels realistic for your life.
3. Be selective about what you grow
Do not walk into a garden center and buy random plants just because they look interesting. Start with a plan. Think about what you actually want to eat, cook, and enjoy, then choose plants that make sense for you.
4. Choose plants that match the amount of effort you want to give
Some plants ask more from the gardener, and some let nature do more of the work. There is no right answer, but it helps to decide early how much effort you actually want to take on and then build your garden around that.
5. Learn to cook with what you grow
Growing food changes the way you eat. If you grow crops that are easy and productive in your climate, you may end up with ingredients you do not usually buy. Learning how to cook with them will help you waste less and enjoy your garden more.
6. Balance unique varieties with practical ones
It is fun to grow unusual heirlooms, colors, and shapes, but it also helps to grow some reliable, familiar varieties you know you will use. A mix of interesting and practical plants usually leads to a happier, more useful garden.
7. Weeding and watering do not have to take over your life
Many beginners assume gardening will mostly be weeding and watering. It does not have to be. There are simple ways to make both easier, and once you do, gardening becomes much more enjoyable.
8. Growing your own food feels more meaningful than you expect
Watching a seed become food never really stops feeling amazing. There is something deeply grounding and joyful about seeing that process up close, especially when you get to share it with your family.
9. Be selective about the advice you take
Everyone has gardening advice, but not all of it fits your climate, your goals, or your style. Even good advice may not be right for you. You do not have to follow every suggestion just because someone offers it.
10. You do not need to be a master gardener to have a good garden
You do not need perfect plants, perfect produce, or perfect results to be successful. Once you stop chasing perfection and start focusing on what matters to you, gardening becomes easier and far more enjoyable.
Ready to move forward with more clarity?
If I could go back and start again, this is exactly how I’d approach it:
1. Start with the Brown Thumb to Green Thumb method
A simple framework to understand what actually makes a garden successful — without overwhelm.
→ Start here2. Use the Simple Garden Year
A simple way to know what to do each month — based on your season, without second guessing.
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